A project to change longterm interpersonal patterns: finding a therapist
Needs-Beliefs-Behaviours
See too Nissen-Lie et al's "Patient and therapist perspectives on alliance development: Therapists' practice experiences as predictors" with its finding about the toxic effects on client rated therapeutic alliance produced by the "leaking" of unspoken critical therapist.
"Humble warmth" "Therapist predictors of early patient-rated working alliance: A multilevel approach"
Pre-session 'meditation' on client strengths & resources. Compassion work.
Work on compassion both for self and for others and its effects on self-esteem ... and note too the benefits of "saying turquoise" and other emotional intelligence aspects.
More to follow ...
... more to follow!