Ways of coping: theory & personal experience
Originally added on Sun, 25/01/2009 - 09:26Last updated on Sun, 25/01/2009 - 11:19
In blog postings earlier this month, I've talked about supporting my Mum after her recent couple of strokes. She's been shipped through three different hospitals and now is more peaceful in a nursing home. It's sad - very sad at times - and it's great that she seems more comfortable, better looked after, and more content. I definitely feel easier too. Less weight on my shoulders, less emotional aching.
Four aspects of helpful inner focus: 2.) nourishing positive states (part A)
Originally added on Wed, 29/10/2008 - 15:22Last updated on Sun, 15/02/2009 - 07:04
Ten days ago, on this blog, I wrote about "Reducing negative states" as one aspect of a simple model entitled "Four aspects of helpful inner focus" (see below). The model is a method I've evolved to help me organize and think about the many facets of deliberately induced altered states of consciousness. I'm using terms loosely here. I remember a hypnotist I came across many years ago, calling himself a "de-hypnotist". He claimed that we walk around "hypnotised" most of the time and that he saw his job as trying to help us "wake up" from this hypnosis. I mention this to illustrate how terms in this field - for example "inner focus" and "altered state of consciousness" - tend to creak rather a lot if one pushes at them for precise meanings.