Particularly if you're socially anxious, try to stay task-focused rather than self-focused
Originally added on Sat, 17/12/2011 - 05:56Last updated on Thu, 12/01/2012 - 13:56
Fear of blushing is more a problem of hyperawareness than of facial temperature
Originally added on Sat, 10/12/2011 - 07:45Last updated on Thu, 12/01/2012 - 13:57
(This & next week's social anxiety blog posts are available as a PDF file or a Word doc - you may need to 'save' the latter before you can open it)
"At bottom every man knows well enough that he is a unique being, only once on this earth; and by no extraordinary chance will such a marvelously picturesque piece of diversity in unity as he is, ever be put together a second time." Frederich Nietzsche
Therapeutic writing & speaking: inspiration from values (specific instructions)
Originally added on Sat, 18/12/2010 - 12:37Last updated on Thu, 09/02/2012 - 06:18
See the two earlier blog posts - "Therapeutic writing & speaking: inspiration from values (background information)" and "Therapeutic writing & speaking: inspiration from values (how-to-do-it)" for fuller details of these self-affirmation, self-transcendence approaches.
This "instructions" post is downloadable as a Word doc.
Therapeutic writing & speaking: inspiration from values (how to do it)
Originally added on Sun, 12/12/2010 - 09:46Last updated on Thu, 09/02/2012 - 06:12
I wrote yesterday about "Therapeutic writing & speaking: inspiration from values (background information)". Today's post looks more at how-to-do-it details. Self-affirmation research describes a number of effective ways to reduce stress, clarify thinking, and boost effectiveness. If the affirmation exercise is being done in response to a particular stress or threat, it's sensible to choose a subject to write (or speak) about that is of real personal importance but that is different from the area that's being threatened. Happily several other writing research studies suggest additional ways of making this type of exercise even more helpful. So a standard set of self-affirmation instructions might well involve asking participants to choose a particularly important personal value (for example, kindness,
Therapeutic writing & speaking: inspiration from values (background information)
Originally added on Sat, 11/12/2010 - 06:29Last updated on Thu, 09/02/2012 - 06:22
Writing (or speaking) about our values or areas of our lives that are of particular personal importance can help us feel less threatened by stresses and more able to see situations clearly. There are many research studies demonstrating this. For example writing about personal values has been shown to reduce both subjectively experienced psychological stress and the body's adrenaline response to taking an academic exam (Sherman, Bunyan et al. 2009). This easing in sense of threat tends to boost the exam results people achieve, especially for those who tend to get more stressed (Cohen, Garcia et al.
Recent research: 4 studies on prayer and their implications for compassion, loving-kindness & goodwill meditation practices
Originally added on Wed, 24/11/2010 - 04:52Last updated on Thu, 02/12/2010 - 06:21
"If you want others to be happy, practise compassion. If you want to be happy, practise compassion" Dalai Lama
Recent research: six studies on mindfulness, values & meaning
Originally added on Thu, 27/05/2010 - 14:08Last updated on Sun, 30/05/2010 - 14:26
Here are half a dozen recent research studies on mindfulness, values & meaning - fuller details, links and abstracts for all studies are listed further down this page. Hofmann and colleagues' meta-analysis on "The effect of mindfulness-based therapy on anxiety and depression" found encouraging effect sizes for mindfulness training and concluded "These results suggest that mindfulness-based therapy is a promising intervention for treating anxiety and mood problems in clinical populations". Meanwhile Barnhofer & Chittka underlined the toxicity of ruminative brooding with their demonstration that the well-demonstrated link between neurotic temperament and depression is mediated by "Tendencies to respond to mild low mood with ruminative thinking". They conclude that "The results suggest that neuroticism predisposes individuals to depression by generally increasing the likelihood of ruminative responses to low mood&quo
Recent research: three studies on sex, three on couples, and one on both!
Originally added on Thu, 14/01/2010 - 10:36Last updated on Sat, 30/01/2010 - 11:27
I recently asked a computer-literate friend how I could encourage more people to visit this blog (thank you to all who already do!). He said "Write more about sex and violence." Ouch. I replied, rather self-righteously, that I wasn't just interested in increasing website traffic for its own sake - that the primary purpose of this blog is to be helpful. Well here I go - some good research studies on sex (and couples) that I hope are helpful!
NICE guidance on promoting mental wellbeing at work
Originally added on Thu, 17/12/2009 - 05:27Last updated on Sun, 20/12/2009 - 08:08
Autogenic training: seventh session
Originally added on Mon, 12/10/2009 - 07:09Last updated on Wed, 28/10/2009 - 07:11
Here are handouts and recordings for the seventh Autogenic Training session. The initial "Autogenic relaxation training" page gives introductory details of this method. In the face-to-face trainings that I run, I would typically start the two hour class by practising last time's Autogenic Training exercise together - in this case it would be the sixth session's belly focus. I would then collect the trainees' record sheets and go round the group looking at how each individual's practice had been going and trouble shooting/sharing experiences. This group discussion time can be very valuable. It brings up all kinds of interesting points, encourages people to interact and help each other, and reinforces the sense that we are all on this learning/exploring journey together.